Control

When a relationship becomes all about control, it is time to get out of that relationship. When th4ey try to control every move you make through manipulation or by any other means, then it is time to go. If they are going to lie to you about the small things, then they are going to lie to you about the bigger, more important things. Hiding things from you is just the same as lying.

A relationship has to be built on trust. If they do not trust you, it is time for it to end. If you find yourself lying to them just so you get to do whatever it is you want to do, then you are letting them control you. I have always done pretty much whatever I want to do within reason, and I have had girlfriends spy on me, search my cell phone, check out all my social media sites, and especially read my blog. I am honest to a fault and I do not hide anything but I also try not to put the specifics of my relationship out on the social media for the world to see. I like to live my life in the real world, not conduct my life in cyberspace. I did have to learn that the hard way. I will slip up from time to time but I do not know anyone who doesn't.