The Butterfly Effect

I first heard this term in Stephen King's novel "11/22/1963". Everything that you do and every decision that you make has far reaching effects way beyond the present like the scattering of butterflies. It doesn't matter how small or inocuous the decision or action may seem, it may effect you tomorrow, one week, one year, or ten years down the road. This might especially be true in relationships. Relationships are tough anyway especially as you are getting close to middle age. It is so very hard to find someone that you are compatible with and can go in one direction with. You are looking for a best friend, a lover, and someone who is going to love you on your best days and love you even more on your worst days.