Not Necessary

I received a text message from my ex-girlfriend this morning that I felt like I did not deserve. Throughout the course of our relationship, she did not know the meaning of the word compromise. She had no interest in stepping into my world, meeting my friends, my family, or becoming involved with anything else in my life. She only wanted to become involved in my life if it threatened her. I will be the first to admit that she took excellent care of me while I was convalescing but now I do not know if that was because she could control every move I made or could make or she wasd genuinely trying to help me. Today she asked why I pulled back from her and I gave her a grocery list of reasons. She evidently did not accept any of those reasons and she chose to react by using profanity and insults. She did close with a farewell text but by then it was too late. The damage had been done. We may not have made it as a couple but i am the best friend you could possibly ask for. Just ask my three ex's that I now count as some of my best friends. I would like to feel it is her loss. The only thing I lost was over four months of my time.