Disappointed

I would be lying to myself and everyone that knows me if I did not say that I was extremely disappointed in the events of last night and this morning. Honesty must not be a requirement in a relationship any more. I discovered with the help of a friend that the woman I had been dating for four months was active on a dating website again. When I confronted her in person and via text, she kept making a reference that her profile was "hidden." It may be hidden but that does not prevent her from contacting other people and people messaging her back. She had gone so far as to update her profile with new pictures including one of me and her that I had been cropped out of. That was the real punch to the balls I have not brought to her attention yet. She then tried to compound the problem by trying to get me to feel sorry for her all day long and I am now beyond disappointed, I am crushed by this turn of events. She got busted by a concerned friend of mine, he alerted me to it, and she somehow managed to make it all about her and tried to spin it to being my fault. Thank you so damn much. That is four months of my life I am not getting back.