I heard the song by the 80's Rock group .38 Special the other day entitled "Fantasy Girl." That song brings back a ton of memories. Almost all guys have a Fantasy Girl whether it be a model, a centerfold, an actress, or someone that they know. Even the mere mention of their fantasy girl will bring a smile to a guy's face.
My first Fantasy Girl was a neighbor of mine at the apartment complex I lived in at Appalachian State University in Boone, NC. Good old AppSouth Apartments. My Fantasy Girl was really cute (how many Fantasy girls are ugly?), the "girl next door" type, dark hair and hazel eyes, she had a smokin' hot body, and as soon as I saw her, I started calling her "Fantasy Girl." My roommates took up the name and started calling her that and the name kind of stuck. I met her a few weeks later and I found out her name was Susan but that didn't sound right. "Fantasy Girl" it was.
I don't think she ever found out I called her that (at least I hope she didn't) and I lost track of her after my Senior year at ASU. My concept of a Fantasy Girl has changed over the years. In my early years it was all based on looks. Who am I kidding, up to a few years ago, it was all based on looks. My concept of the Fantasy Girl now is someone who wants to be with me, someone who wants to make me happy, and enjoys spending time with me and wants to do some of the things I want to do.
A lot of time, energy, and money have been wasted trying to figure that out and finally coming to that conclusion. I do not think anyone can say that they know where a relationship is going when it first starts out but they can say if it feels like it is going in the right direction. I am now in a relationship that feels right. Any relationship is "give and take" and not meant to be stressful. It is meant to be the missing piece. I may finally have found what I am looking for.
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