The Friendship Zone

Whenever you first enter a relationship you always seem to be on the verge of "the Friendship Zone." The Friendship Zone is that terrible zone that you can slip into when it appears that you are dating, but in reality, you are just friends, except you are the last one to know. You pay for all of the dates (until the money runs out), you do everything together like you are dating, you have arguments like you are dating, the only thing missing is sex. There are a myriad of reasons as to why you are not getting any sex, but the bottom line is, you are not getting any. You haven't developed that close "bond" that she requires for relationship sex. All things considered, sex should not be the most important thing in a relationship but it is an expressive element within the relationship that makes it very personal and makes the bond tighter. At my age, virginity is out of the question and this is the 21st Century. If that bond is not there, then it might be time to "just be friends."