Sins Of The Past

I have a hard time paying for my own sins much less paying for the sins of someone else. I think most everyone in the dating scene at my age has trust issues. I can understand that. I have many of my own trust issues. Once your trust has been violated by anyone you don't trust as easily any more. I do strongly feel that you need to at least give the other person a chance until they prove they can't be trusted. Making the other person pay for someone else's sins is just flat out wrong. I am sorry your ex-husband or boyfriend cheated on you but it wasn't me that cheated. Why should I pay for his sins with layer after layer of mistrust? Why should I even stick around while you try to figure out I am worth it? I am tired of paying for the sins of someone else's past. Life and relationships should be light-hearted and fun, not lived under a microscope.